(catching up on recent changes from t2k and pienu)

Various timeout problems fixed:
- cm_transition() timeouts now settable from ODB (/experiment/transition timeout, transition connect 
timeout). Rev 4479
- rpc_client_call() timeout did not work because of bad select() and alarm() interaction. Rev 4479
- implement rpc connect timeout (was hardwired 10 sec) via rpc_{set,get}_option(-2, RPC_OTIMEOUT). Rev 
4478
- ss_mutex_wait_for() timeout only worked if 1Hz alarm() interrupts are present. Now I use semtimedop() 
and timeout should always work. Rev 4472

K.O.